cyclical consent for power-negotiated relationships
Jul
22
2:00 PM14:00

cyclical consent for power-negotiated relationships

we are negotiating power disparities in relationships constantly, in every context we move through. this is a workshop centred on those relationships we choose & mutually cocreate: our friends, chosen family, and partners. drawing on nearly a decade of experience doing d/s relationships and learning about them from leatherdyke mentors & elders, i offer a model of cyclical consent for building d/s dynamics that translates & supports effective, transparent negotiation of power across many different types of power dynamics between people, both systemic and individual.

in the face of often rigid pre-existing myths, ideas, and models of how d/s or cross-power-dynamic relationships "should" look and be done, what does it look like to cultivate dynamics that allow for evolution and reflect our own authentic desires? how do we centre in the shape of our power––chosen, obligatory, or restricted––and use it in ways that are aligned with our ethics & dreams for our communities & futures? how do we build dynamics that are consensual and accountable in ongoing ways?

this workshop is grounded in self-compassion & self-accountability, emergence & adaptation, the knowledge that there is no "one true way" to do d/s or negotiate power, and the reality that your body is a source of information you can trust.

this workshop takes place online via zoom on sunday 22 july, 2:00 - 4:00 pm EST. a recording will be available for one month after the live date in case you'd like to review or can't make it live.

to register: paypal or interac e-transfer (pw: somatics) $40 to hannah@bodywitch.com with the your preferred name & email address in the notes. you will receive a confirmation email with the zoom link to join. if you would like a reduced or no-cost spot, please EMAIL to check availability first! i have limited low-cost spaces available ($25) and three no-cost spaces, with priority to Black & Indigenous (to Turtle Island) participants.
 

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level up yr bottomline
Jul
11
7:00 PM19:00

level up yr bottomline

do you perhaps have a type? a certain kinda friend or date you just keep choosing, despite certain patterns that end up hurting you or draining your energy? a certain kinda of toxic attraction you wish you could ditch but you can’t figure out how? do you sometimes ask yourself, “why do i keep doing this?” this one’s for you!

grounded in principles of harm reduction, self-accountability, self-compassion, and emergent transformation, this workshop will guide gentle work to identify one place to level up yr bottomline, and steps towards making that happen. our tools will be our rich past experiences, our desire, our bodies, our commitments, and our collective wisdom.

$40, with a limited number of spots at $25 and three at $0. please only take a reduced or no-cost space if you would be unable to participate without it! to register: paypal or interac e-transfer your payment to hannah@bodywitch.com with the name & email address you'd like me to use to contact you with the zoom link in the notes. if you would like a reduced or no-cost spot, please email to check availability first!

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traumababe4traumababe: a relationship workshop
May
12
to Jun 2

traumababe4traumababe: a relationship workshop

no matter how crazy, traumatized, or neuroweird we are, we deserve love, care, and support

AND

sometimes our madness, trauma, and neurodivergence can make being in relationships kind of messy and hard, especially in conflict. in conflict, things can speed up and go deep real fast. we and our friends, roommates, lovers, partners, and family members can have a rough time sorting out whose shit is whose, which patterns & dynamics might be able to shift, and how to harm-reduce the sticky stuff that isn't going anywhere anytime soon.

this is a four-week workshop for you, created with love from someone who's lived a lot of hard, fucked up relational shit, and who's spent the last decade practicing and studying mad pride & body-based frameworks for healing and being in relationship. 

PART 1: DEEP DIVING
SATURDAY 12 MAY WANING CRESCENT MOON, 2:00 - 4:00 pm
SATURDAY 19 MAY WAXING CRESCENT MOON, 2:00 - 4:00 pm

when we go in, we go deep. in this half of the workshop, we will recognize & honour how deep diving keeps us alive & offers invaluable wisdom. in rough seas with big waves, deep diving is actually the safest way to swim. over these two sessions, participants will be guided to prepare for the powerful & delicate work we will do together, and then dip down into the underworld for powerful shame-transforming practices. we will build resources & safety through somatic grounding & containment practices suited to each individual body, and skillshare knowledge about the deep, swift dives we take into conflict in our relationships. as we work around the new moon in taurus on 15 may, we will shed.

PART 2: SURFACING
SATURDAY 26 MAY WAXING GIBBOUS MOON, 2:00 - 4:00 pm
SATURDAY 2 JUNE WANING GIBBOUS MOON, 2:00 - 4:00 pm

the thing about going deep is, it's hard to see & hear clearly down there. sometimes this means that when we emerge from conflict, we've made some messes: said something shitty, crossed someone's boundaries, dropped the ball, or missed an opportunity. in this half of the workshop, we will focus on tools for accepting, grieving, and repairing what has gone wrong. participants will skillshare around re-orienting after surfacing, create their own map to use in conflict, and explore ways to come back into & repair relationships that may have been damaged while we were under. as we work around the full moon in sagittarius on 29 may, we will build.

LIMITED TO 10, PRE-REGISTRATION REQUIRED, DEADLINE 9 MAY: email hannah@bodywitch.com. 

$150, with an invitation for those who are able to pay higher & those who need to pay lower: please pay as high as you are able, taking into your full-spectrum financial situation including income, savings, debt, family/other support, and class background. payment plans are always chill! eight spaces paid on average at full cost allows two no-cost spaces, available to folks in need who have strong curiosity & commitment to attend, with priority to Black &/or Indigenous participants.

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simple tools for skillful boundaries
Apr
30
6:30 PM18:30

simple tools for skillful boundaries

Boundaries: one of the hardest damn things to figure out, amirite?

In this workshop, participants will learn a simple, practical process for figuring out their boundaries, articulating those boundaries to those who need to know about them, and maintaining those boundaries. Boundaries exist to structure our lives so that more of what we desire and need gets in, and more of what drains and hurts us stays out. Developing our skills around setting boundaries allows us to take better care of ourselves, have more mutually nurturing relationships, and ride the up & down ferris wheel of life more smoothly.

This workshop is hosted by Venus Envy Ottawa; pre-registration required through their website!

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somatics for grounding & containment
Apr
21
2:00 PM14:00

somatics for grounding & containment

In this workshop, participants will learn nurturing somatic* practices for grounding and containment, including how to adjust and adapt practices for their own bodies and for different moments. Grounding and containment practices are essential parts of any emotional/mental health emergency response toolkit: they help dial it down a few notches, make space to take a breath, and connect to a sense of safety. Professionals, parents, partners, friends, and others love telling folks how one should ground or contain when big shit comes up, but often it's not clear how to figure out what truly works. Through a guided process of sensing consent in their bodies, participants will leave this workshop with at least a fewreliable practices that can be used preventatively or urgently during rough times, flip-outs, and meltdowns. *This time, I'm offering this workshop online in order to make it accessible for folks who can't get into my office, and folks who can participate better when they don't have to leave their homes/beds.*

$60/person, with an invitation for those who can to pay higher & and those who need to get in touch about paying lower. Please pay as high as you're able taking into account income, savings, family/other support, debt, and class background! In order to offer two reparations spots for Black &/or Indigenous participants at no cost, the other five spots must be filled. Offering pricing this way helps make tangible the realities that healing is a communal endeavour, that everyone deserves it, and that healing work deserves to be compensated.

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traumababe4traumababe: a relationship workshop
Mar
20
9:00 PM21:00

traumababe4traumababe: a relationship workshop

no matter how crazy, traumatized, or neuroweird we are, we deserve love, care, and support

AND

sometimes our madness, trauma, and neurodivergence can make being in relationships kind of messy and hard, especially in conflict. in conflict, things can speed up and go deep real fast. we and our friends, roommates, lovers, partners, and family members can have a rough time sorting out whose shit is whose, which patterns & dynamics might be able to shift, and how to harm-reduce the sticky stuff that isn't going anywhere anytime soon. this is a two-part workshop for you, created with love from someone who's lived a lot of hard, fucked up relational shit, and who's spent the last decade practicing and studying mad pride & body-based frameworks for healing and being in relationship. 

PART ONE: DEEP DIVING
SATURDAY 17 MARCH NEW MOON, 2:00 - 5:00 pm

when we go in, we go deep. in this half of the workshop, participants will map their deep dives into conflict, skillshare to build personalized dive kits to take with next time, learn somatic grounding & containment practices suited to their own bodies, and deshame these deep, swift dives by recognizing & honouring how deep diving keeps us alive & offers invaluable wisdom. in rough seas with big waves, deep diving is actually the safest way to swim.

PART TWO: SURFACING
TUESDAY 20 MARCH WAXING CRESCENT, 6:00 - 9:00 pm

the thing about going deep is, it's hard to see & hear clearly down there. sometimes this means that when we emerge from conflict, we've made some messes: said something shitty, crossed someone's boundaries, dropped the ball, or missed an opportunity. in this half of the workshop, we will focus on tools for accepting, grieving, and repairing what has gone wrong. participants will skillshare around re-orienting after surfacing, learn self-accountability tools for moving with & through shame towards self-forgiveness, and explore ways to come back into & repair relationships that may have been damaged while we were under. 

LIMITED TO 10, PRE-REGISTRATION REQUIRED, DEADLINE 13 MARCH: email hannah@bodywitch.com. 
please note, registration from queer folks and folks who have worked with me or ouroboros healing space before will be prioritized. 

$60-120, payment plans are always chill
two scholarship spaces available to Black or Indigenous participants with strong curiosity & commitment to attend

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